A Simple Guide For New Parents

On February 16, 2025 By newsroom Topic: Family Buyers Guide

Welcome to Parenthood!

Having a new baby is exciting but can feel overwhelming. Here’s a quick guide to navigate this incredible journey.

Emotions You May Feel

Relief: Your baby is finally here!
Exhaustion: Rest whenever possible; it’s normal to feel tired.
Happiness/Worry: Adjusting takes time. Seek help if you feel consistently sad (postpartum depression info on p. 42).

Support Network

Rely on family, friends, and parent support groups.
Libraries and health departments often offer free resources for new parents.

Preparing for Baby’s Homecoming

Safe Sleep Setup: Crib or bassinet with firm mattress, no loose slats, or soft bedding.
Rear-Facing Car Seat: Ensure proper installation for safety.
Baby Essentials: Diapers, mild soap, cotton clothes, and a thermometer.

Caring for Your Baby

Getting to Know Your Baby: Each baby is unique. Spend time observing their needs, likes, and temperament.
Playtime: Talk, sing, and read to your baby to boost development.
When Babies Cry: Learn their cries (hunger, sleep, discomfort) and try calming techniques like rocking or soft music.

Shaken Baby Syndrome

NEVER shake or hit your baby.
Consequences include brain damage, blindness, or even death.
If overwhelmed, put the baby in a safe place and take a short break.

Feeding Your Baby

Breastfeeding: Provides perfect nutrition, boosts immunity, and fosters bonding. Exclusive breastfeeding is recommended for 6 months.
Formula Feeding: If using formula, prepare it safely and bond during feedings.

Safety Tips for Home and Beyond

Home Safety:
Install smoke/carbon monoxide alarms and baby-proof hazards (e.g., outlets, sharp objects).
Avoid holding hot drinks or cooking while holding your baby.
Prevent falls with baby gates and constant supervision.
Car Safety: Always use a rear-facing car seat in the back seat.
SIDS Prevention:
Place baby on their back to sleep in a crib or bassinet with no clutter.
Avoid overheating and secondhand smoke.

Sibling Adjustment

Spend one-on-one time with older children.
Involve them in baby care (e.g., fetching diapers, sharing updates).
Praise them for helping and teach safe ways to interact with the baby.

Childcare Tips

Start early and visit several options. Look for clean, safe environments with qualified staff.
Stay involved through regular communication and occasional drop-ins.

Health and Immunizations

Ensure your baby receives recommended shots to protect against diseases like measles and polio.
Keep a personal record of your child’s immunizations.

Preventing Childhood Lead Poisoning

Test for lead at 1 and 2 years old.
Avoid lead hazards in paint, water, toys, and dishes.
Serve foods rich in calcium, iron, and vitamin C to reduce lead absorption.

Parenting Resources

Helplines:
Parent Helpline: 1-800-244-5373
Poison Help: 1-800-222-1222
Websites:
Safe Sleep
Lead Prevention
Childcare Resources

New Parent Guide: Summary & Tips

Dental Health Habits

Avoid sharing saliva (e.g., using the same spoon) to prevent passing cavity-causing bacteria.
Clean gums and teeth after feeding. From age 2, use a pea-sized amount of fluoride toothpaste.
Avoid putting babies to sleep with bottles or sugary drinks.
Begin dental visits between 6 months and 1 year old.
Talk to your dentist about fluoride supplements if your drinking water lacks fluoride.
Limit sugary foods and drinks to meal times.

Developmental Milestones: Birth to 3 Years

3 Months: Smiles, coos, tracks objects, lifts head.
6 Months: Rolls over, plays with toes, babbles.
12 Months: Crawls, pulls to stand, waves bye-bye.
18 Months: Walks alone, says 6+ words, feeds themselves.
24 Months: Uses 2-3 word sentences, identifies body parts, builds towers.
36 Months: Rides tricycle, throws a ball, names colors, uses 3-5 word sentences.

If concerned about milestones, contact your doctor or local Early Intervention Program.

Health Insurance Options

Medicaid: Covers children under 19 with qualifying family income.
Child Health Plus: Provides low-cost coverage for doctor visits, hospital care, and dental services.
Call 1-800-698-4543 for more info.

Routine Health Care

Newborn screenings test for over 40 conditions.
Hearing screenings are required in NY State hospitals.
Regular checkups: Birth, 1, 2, 4, 6, 9, 12, 15, 18, 24, 30, and 36 months.
Include dental checkups by age 1.
Immunizations protect against illnesses like polio, measles, and whooping cough.

Special Care for Premature or Sick Babies

Seek support from family, friends, and programs like the Children and Youth with Special Health Care Needs Program (CYSHCN).
Call 1-800-522-5006 for assistance.

Tips for Parents

Postpartum Recovery

Eat well, sleep when baby sleeps, and exercise gently.
Watch for signs of postpartum depression. Seek help if sadness persists.

Sleep Strategies

Establish a bedtime routine (bath, story, cuddles).
Sleep when the baby sleeps to avoid burnout.

Self-Care

Take breaks: Ask someone to watch the baby while you relax.
Stay active: Walks with the baby can rejuvenate you.

Back to Work Planning

Start childcare arrangements early; test them out before returning to work.
Breastfeeding moms can pump at work; NY law supports workplace accommodations for nursing.
Plan for backup childcare for emergencies.

Special Tips for Dads & Partners

Take an active role in caregiving: diaper changes, feeding, bedtime routines.
Be supportive of your partner; teamwork is key.

Additional Resources

Early Intervention: 1-800-522-5006 or visit NY Early Intervention Program
Parent Helpline: 1-800-244-5373
Breastfeeding Info: www.breastfeedingpartners.org
Child Health Plus: 1-800-698-4543