A Simple Guide For New Parents

On February 16, 2025 By newsroom Topic: Family Buyers Guide


Welcome to Parenthood!

Having a new baby is exciting but can feel overwhelming. Here’s a quick guide to navigate this incredible journey.


Emotions You May Feel

  • Relief: Your baby is finally here!
  • Exhaustion: Rest whenever possible; it’s normal to feel tired.
  • Happiness/Worry: Adjusting takes time. Seek help if you feel consistently sad (postpartum depression info on p. 42).

Support Network

  • Rely on family, friends, and parent support groups.
  • Libraries and health departments often offer free resources for new parents.

Preparing for Baby’s Homecoming

  • Safe Sleep Setup: Crib or bassinet with firm mattress, no loose slats, or soft bedding.
  • Rear-Facing Car Seat: Ensure proper installation for safety.
  • Baby Essentials: Diapers, mild soap, cotton clothes, and a thermometer.

Caring for Your Baby

  • Getting to Know Your Baby: Each baby is unique. Spend time observing their needs, likes, and temperament.
  • Playtime: Talk, sing, and read to your baby to boost development.
  • When Babies Cry: Learn their cries (hunger, sleep, discomfort) and try calming techniques like rocking or soft music.

Shaken Baby Syndrome

  • NEVER shake or hit your baby.
  • Consequences include brain damage, blindness, or even death.
  • If overwhelmed, put the baby in a safe place and take a short break.

Feeding Your Baby

  • Breastfeeding: Provides perfect nutrition, boosts immunity, and fosters bonding. Exclusive breastfeeding is recommended for 6 months.
  • Formula Feeding: If using formula, prepare it safely and bond during feedings.

Safety Tips for Home and Beyond

  • Home Safety:
  • Install smoke/carbon monoxide alarms and baby-proof hazards (e.g., outlets, sharp objects).
  • Avoid holding hot drinks or cooking while holding your baby.
  • Prevent falls with baby gates and constant supervision.
  • Car Safety: Always use a rear-facing car seat in the back seat.
  • SIDS Prevention:
  • Place baby on their back to sleep in a crib or bassinet with no clutter.
  • Avoid overheating and secondhand smoke.

Sibling Adjustment

  • Spend one-on-one time with older children.
  • Involve them in baby care (e.g., fetching diapers, sharing updates).
  • Praise them for helping and teach safe ways to interact with the baby.

Childcare Tips

  • Start early and visit several options. Look for clean, safe environments with qualified staff.
  • Stay involved through regular communication and occasional drop-ins.

Health and Immunizations

  • Ensure your baby receives recommended shots to protect against diseases like measles and polio.
  • Keep a personal record of your child’s immunizations.

Preventing Childhood Lead Poisoning

  • Test for lead at 1 and 2 years old.
  • Avoid lead hazards in paint, water, toys, and dishes.
  • Serve foods rich in calcium, iron, and vitamin C to reduce lead absorption.

Parenting Resources


New Parent Guide: Summary & Tips


Dental Health Habits

  • Avoid sharing saliva (e.g., using the same spoon) to prevent passing cavity-causing bacteria.
  • Clean gums and teeth after feeding. From age 2, use a pea-sized amount of fluoride toothpaste.
  • Avoid putting babies to sleep with bottles or sugary drinks.
  • Begin dental visits between 6 months and 1 year old.
  • Talk to your dentist about fluoride supplements if your drinking water lacks fluoride.
  • Limit sugary foods and drinks to meal times.

Developmental Milestones: Birth to 3 Years

  • 3 Months: Smiles, coos, tracks objects, lifts head.
  • 6 Months: Rolls over, plays with toes, babbles.
  • 12 Months: Crawls, pulls to stand, waves bye-bye.
  • 18 Months: Walks alone, says 6+ words, feeds themselves.
  • 24 Months: Uses 2-3 word sentences, identifies body parts, builds towers.
  • 36 Months: Rides tricycle, throws a ball, names colors, uses 3-5 word sentences.

If concerned about milestones, contact your doctor or local Early Intervention Program.


Health Insurance Options

  • Medicaid: Covers children under 19 with qualifying family income.
  • Child Health Plus: Provides low-cost coverage for doctor visits, hospital care, and dental services.
    Call 1-800-698-4543 for more info.

Routine Health Care

  • Newborn screenings test for over 40 conditions.
  • Hearing screenings are required in NY State hospitals.
  • Regular checkups: Birth, 1, 2, 4, 6, 9, 12, 15, 18, 24, 30, and 36 months.
  • Include dental checkups by age 1.
  • Immunizations protect against illnesses like polio, measles, and whooping cough.

Special Care for Premature or Sick Babies

  • Seek support from family, friends, and programs like the Children and Youth with Special Health Care Needs Program (CYSHCN).
    Call 1-800-522-5006 for assistance.

Tips for Parents

Postpartum Recovery

  • Eat well, sleep when baby sleeps, and exercise gently.
  • Watch for signs of postpartum depression. Seek help if sadness persists.

Sleep Strategies

  • Establish a bedtime routine (bath, story, cuddles).
  • Sleep when the baby sleeps to avoid burnout.

Self-Care

  • Take breaks: Ask someone to watch the baby while you relax.
  • Stay active: Walks with the baby can rejuvenate you.

Back to Work Planning

  • Start childcare arrangements early; test them out before returning to work.
  • Breastfeeding moms can pump at work; NY law supports workplace accommodations for nursing.
  • Plan for backup childcare for emergencies.

Special Tips for Dads & Partners

  • Take an active role in caregiving: diaper changes, feeding, bedtime routines.
  • Be supportive of your partner; teamwork is key.

Additional Resources


Remember: Every child and parent is unique. Take it one day at a time, seek help when needed, and enjoy this special journey!


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